Solo Moms vs Deadbeat Dads
SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 007
In this episode, I discuss some tips to help you know what to do when a deadbeat dad tries to flip the script and claim that you are the reason he his an absent dad. If you are a single mom who has found her self in this situation, listen as I give you some tips taking precautions and remaining unfazed by his slander.
The Proof is in the pudding
Keep records of EVERYTHING. Every phone call, every text, email, Facebook or twitter messages and store them somewhere safe. Like your cloud, Google Drive, or Dropbox. Save your screenshots from emails, text or Facebook messages from over the years of you asking him to come see his child.
If you haven't already downloaded the "TapACall" app do that now. There's a free and paid version. Record every call with him, assuming you can get him on the phone, of you trying to make plans for him see your child.
WHY SHOULD I REMAIN UNFAZED
First off, let me tell you why I'm unbothered by all things concerning my ex. I honestly don't care what my children's father says about me. I know what kind of mother and human I am. So do my nearest and dearest.
You know what kind of mother you are, let your character speak volumes for itself. If the accusation does grind your gears, take the necessary time to be angry, then spend the rest of your days unbothered.
I'm Daisha Renee; single mama, foodie, and lover of yoga. Here on the blog, I love providing powerful solutions for overwhelmed single moms who struggle with balancing all the components of single motherhood. I would also love it if you would come hang out with me in my Facebook Group. Can't wait to meet you!